They say...

So if I hear one more married person tell me that the day they stopped looking for a boyfriend/husband/partner is the day they met the person of their dreams, I may actually scream. It's an insane idea that "universe" is somehow against you being pro active and finding a partner. So I need to stop looking? And then what? A man somehow appears in my lap. Everything I was looking for...but I wasn't looking right? So very confusing and a little annoying. Married folks: If you have been married for over 5 years, then you don't remember what it was like to date. It is not fun. And no, I don't want to meet your brother in law/cousin/awesome guy you work with...